Parenting With Anxiety: Why Your Child's Meltdown Feels Like Your Emergency
When your child falls apart over something small, your body can respond as if it's a real emergency. Here's why the urge to fix it feels so strong, what the research says, and how to stay steady.
"What Do You Do All Day?" and Other Things People Say to Mothers
If you stay home with your kids, someone will eventually ask what you do all day. If you work, you hear about the eighteen summers, mama. There is no way to do motherhood that people won't comment on.
Borrowed Anxiety: When the Book, the Feed, and the News Start Worrying for You
The book had flowers on the cover and was on every list, so you started it expecting something easy. By chapter twelve you were sitting very still on the couch with your heart going, thinking about your own kids asleep down the hall.
Boardroom to Back Seat: The Whiplash of Working Motherhood
We budget for the pickup. We don't budget for the switch.
The Best Mom is a Contradiction, and Nobody Warned You
Here's the part nobody stitches onto a "girl mom" onesie: the exact traits that made her formidable at work are frequently the ones she now has to actively dismantle to be the mother she's trying to be. Which is a genuinely funny design flaw, if you're in the mood to laugh instead of cry about it. Sometimes you get to pick.
Postpartum OCD: Symptoms, Causes, and How to Get Help
Up to 9% of new mothers develop postpartum OCD, and most suffer in silence out of fear of what disclosure might mean. This guide explains what the condition actually is, how it differs from postpartum psychosis, and why treatment works.
Couples therapy for new parents: how to reconnect after baby
The distance between you and your partner after baby is real, common, and documented. Here is how couples therapy for new parents actually works, what it costs, and what you can start doing tonight.
Everyone needs to stop talking for five minutes (a clinical explanation)
Overstimulation — sometimes called sensory overload, though that phrase tends to make people think of children with sensory processing challenges, which is not who I'm talking to right now — is what happens when your nervous system takes in more input than it can process at once. Sound, touch, movement, the particular way someone says your name when you have already heard your name forty times today. It stacks. And when it stacks past your ceiling, your body tips into discomfort and sounds the alarm.

