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The Best Mom is a Contradiction, and Nobody Warned You

Here's the part nobody stitches onto a "girl mom" onesie: the exact traits that made her formidable at work are frequently the ones she now has to actively dismantle to be the mother she's trying to be. Which is a genuinely funny design flaw, if you're in the mood to laugh instead of cry about it. Sometimes you get to pick.

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Maya Kruger Maya Kruger

Postpartum OCD: Symptoms, Causes, and How to Get Help

Up to 9% of new mothers develop postpartum OCD, and most suffer in silence out of fear of what disclosure might mean. This guide explains what the condition actually is, how it differs from postpartum psychosis, and why treatment works.

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Maya Kruger Maya Kruger

Everyone needs to stop talking for five minutes (a clinical explanation)

Overstimulation — sometimes called sensory overload, though that phrase tends to make people think of children with sensory processing challenges, which is not who I'm talking to right now — is what happens when your nervous system takes in more input than it can process at once. Sound, touch, movement, the particular way someone says your name when you have already heard your name forty times today. It stacks. And when it stacks past your ceiling, your body tips into discomfort and sounds the alarm.

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